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I’ve often spoken of my dear grandparents and my unexplainable love for them. My grandmother passed away this morning, and I’m absolutely heartbroken.

I grew up living in the same neighborhood as them, and my childhood memories are filled with enough love to last lifetimes. My family is very small which undoubtedly makes us very close.

I’ll be taking a few days off to be with them–especially my dear grandfather who is now a widow after 65 years of unfaltering love.

If only we could all be so lucky, right?

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  1. My heart breaks for you. Losing someone you love is never easy. Your family was lucky to have so many wonderful years with with her. You are in my thoughts.

  2. Chris, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my grandfather 5 years ago, and I still miss him every day. I pray that God gives you peace during this difficult transition in your life and the lives of your family and children.

    My grandmother is my best friend, and I count my blessings everyday that she is still with me and that my daughter has a chance to know her and spend time with her everyday like I did as a girl.

    God bless!

  4. So sorry to hear about the passing of your grandmother. I will be thinking about you during this dark time. Cherish those memories and may they give you strength.

  5. I am very sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  6. Oh I'm so sorry for your loss. Grandparents are such special people. you and your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

  8. I am so sorry for your loss…and yet so happy that you were blessed to have such special realationships…May God give you and yours peace during this time

  10. So sorry for your loss. All my prayers are for you and your family. Veronica

  12. I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for strength and lots of support for your family.

  15. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Your poor grandfather. His heart must be aching.
    Jen
    Scissors & Spatulas

  18. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that kind of pain. I'll pray for you and your family.

  21. So sorry for your loss! I have lost all my grandparents years ago, so I understand how you are feeling. Hold onto those memories and all that love, and hold onto your grandfather while you have him! Blessings, Becky G. in GA

  22. Big hugs to you, Chris. My grandmothers mean so much to me…I can't imagine your feelings right now. Bless you and your family at this time. xo

  23. So sorry for your loss. Grandparents are such special parts of our lives.

  25. very sorry for your loss. i lost a grandmother last year she was 101.
    lauren

    my prayers are with you

  26. Chris, I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother's passing. But, I'm so glad that you were able to have her in your life as such a loving and constant role model. My grandmother turns 90 this year, and I feel so grateful that I've had her in my life for such a long time. We are among the fortunate to have such gifts in our lives. I wish you all peace and healing in the time that lies ahead.

  27. Oh no. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers, especially your grandfather. I know it will help him to have you nearby. God Bless and wishing you all much peach and comfort.

  28. Chris,

    So sorry for the sadness you are feeling. It sounds like you have a lovely family and I hope your bonds will help you all through this time.

  29. Chris, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Grandma's are the best, the memories will be treasured I'm sure. I will pray for you and your family.

  30. Chris, I'm very sorry to hear this. I pray for peace for you and your family during this sad time. (((Hugs)))

  31. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  32. Oh Chris. I'm so so sorry for your loss. My granny passed away a few years ago and it was the hardest thing ever. I still miss her calling me on my birthday…so so much.

    Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

    xoxo

  33. I am so sorry to hear this news! I am also very close to my Grandparents! My 93 year old (this friday she'll be 94!) Grandmother even lives with me. Both of my Grandfathers died 8 and 9 years ago and I so adored them! Thankfully both of my Grandmother's are still alive. The world is a sweeter place because of them. I'm so glad you got to know yours so well. You are so smart to take the time you need, with those you love! Again, so sorry to hear of your loss. I do not know how I will get through losing my Grandmothers.

    Hugs,
    Rebecca@RootsAndWingsCo

  35. I'm so very sorry to hear this. I lost my grandfather in August and it's still extremely hard for me. He was the only grandfather I ever had and the first death on either side of my family in 43 years. It's been rough to say the least. My heart is breaking to think of you going through that pain today. Prayers and warm hugs for you and your grandfather tonight.

  38. I'm so sorry to hear this. My last grandparent, my grandmother died 9 years ago. we were very close too, and lived very close to each other with a small family as well. 🙁 It still is very hard! No matter how old someone is, it's still never long enough. 🙁

  39. I'm sorry. My husband's grandmother passed away on Friday. I'm praying for both of you.

  40. It is never easy to have to say goodbye to a beloved grandparent. I miss my papa everyday, and dread the time when my other grandparents also depart this life. May you and your family feel some peace at this time.

  41. Sorry to hear of your loss! I too have great memories of my grandmother…glad she was a big part of my life growing up!

  43. So sorry for your loss. Losing a grandparent is so hard. Thinking of you and your family.

    xo,
    Anna

  44. Cherish your memories. Sorry for your loss.
    Maureen

  45. My most sincere condolences to you and your family. May you gather strength to face these difficult days ahead. Take care, Janice

  46. Grandparents are such special people. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  47. Oh, Chris, I am so sorry for your loss. I've enjoyed reading about your grandparents over the years. Your love for them radiates right through your words–it's almost tangible, and it's so heartwarming. So I know your loss is huge, and my heart breaks for you. I'm so very sorry.

    Thank you for sharing your love for your grandparents and now sharing with us your loss as well. I pray that we may all share some of your loss and therefore lighten your burden a bit. God bless you now as you minister to your grandfather. May you all find comfort together in celebrating your grandmother's great life even in the midst of the sadness her passing.

    You are such a lovable woman. I imagine that one reason for that is because you were loved so well by your wonderful grandmother. We all now share a little tiny bit of her legacy. Thank you for letting us share.

  48. I am so sorry for your loss. I am incredibly close with my grandmother as well, so I know the bond you're talking about. You and your family are in my thoughts.

  49. My prayers and heart goes out to you and your family. Losing someone so close isn't something we can ever do alone. Remember we are all here for you!

  50. I am so sorry to read about your loss. I too had very special grandparents in my life & know the heartache you are feeling right now. Cherish the wonderful memories you have with your grandmother always. May God help you through this difficult time.

  51. Chris, I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time.

    Penny

  52. Oh girl, I know just how you feel. I am so sorry for your loss, there are no words in such a hard time! It is wonderful you had an awesome relationship with her, it would be cool when your heart is ready to do a post all about her life and your relationship! Condolences to you and your family:(

  54. I am so sorry to learn of this news…thinking of you and your family…especially your sweet grandfather.

  55. I am so sorry for your loss. I have only one grandparent now, I miss the others so much. Your family is in my prayers.

  56. Having lost my dad at 90 last summer, my wounds are still sore from the loss. As I read your post, I immediately thought how fortunate we both were to have such a loving bond to our family members. I feel so fortunate to be like you to love them so deeply. That's what makes their loss so difficult. I don't think everyone experiences such closeness with family members and we should be so grateful to have been given such loving family members. Treasure every moment with your grandpa and be kind to yourself as you mourn your grandmother's loss. xoxo

  59. So sorry for your loss. May peace fill your homes as you take time to grieve.

  62. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. What a wonderful gift to have a loving grandmother!

  63. I am so sorry for your loss. I also find it strange because my good friend lost her Mom this morning after a battle with cancer. Today was indeed a very sad day!

  65. So sorry for your loss!! Will be praying for you.

    My grandma is days away from death, and I'm very nervous. So please know that you'e not alone in your grief, friend.

  66. Very sorry for your loss sweety, and I feel for your grandpa, that is truly hard, and so rare to see such LONG happy marriages. May we all be so blessed.

    Thinking of you!

    Bella 🙂

  67. I am so sorry for your loss. It is a sad day all around. I lost a friend in a plane crash this morning. Whether is is expected or a sudden shock, losing someone you care about is never easy.

  69. Oh Chris, I’m so sorry. My grandmother passed a few years ago, the funeral was very hard for me because I didn’t want to remember her that way but it gave me peace to think she was finally able to see my grandpa again. I hope you and your family are able to find peace in such a difficult time.

  70. I'm so sorry about your grandmother. I had an amazing grandma that was a ball of sunshine. I want to be an amazing grandma myself (our first and only grandchild is 5 months old). I have a lot to learn but I sure do love that little bundle of joy! I hope I measure up.

  73. Chris, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm thinking about you and your family.

    Bonnie

  75. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers this weekend. Take all the time you need, and we'll be here when you're back.

  76. Oh Chris! I am so sorry for your loss! I am thinking of you and your family. Hugs!

  77. So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Blessings, Sharon

  78. How devastating for you and your family 🙁 Losing someone is always so hard. All of our love and support is with you and your family *hugs*

  79. So sorry for your loss. When my grandmother passed it left a huge hole in my heart. I really understand the sorrow.
    May you find peace as you remember the life she led and may you be filled with joy in remember her.
    Praying for you and your family.

  80. I was very close to both of my grandparents and still miss them although they have been gone many years. You will always have those precious memories to see you through. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Judy

  81. I'm so sorry for your loss. This is the hardest time – adjusting to the absence of so great a presence in your life. Thank goodness for all the wonderful memories and the fantastic example of a true love. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

  83. I am so sorry for your loss. I can see your face in your grandmother's. My grandma (who was my only stability growing up) passed away about 4 years ago. I still catch my breath every once in awhile when I think about her. There is just something about grandmas. The neatest thing for me (and the most complimentary) was at her funeral hearing people talk about her highschool days and days as a young mother. I thought I knew everything about her but I didn't. I found out a lot of the stuff I am naturally good at and love, she did too. I will always cherish the memory of my grandma.

    Hugs, prayers, and thoughts to you and your family as you go through this time.

  84. Chris,I'm so sorry that you and your family are experiencing the sadness of losing someone so dear to you. It's an awful feeling! I lost both of my grandmother's and I miss them so much. There is hope though! Revelation 21:3,4 "He will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more".

  85. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Never having my grandparents in the same country with me, I grew up not knowing what that relationship was like. My prayers are with you.

  86. So sorry for your loss. Take this time to share with your family the memories.

  87. Grandmothers are in a league of their own, and losing them is especially painful. Take the time you need to be with family…you'll be in my thoughts.

  88. Aww… I'm so sorry. 🙁 I, too, am very close with my grandparents who are 87 and have also been together 65 years! They are a more special to me than words could ever express.

    I know the day will come when I'll have to say goodbye and well… I just avoid thinking about it.

    Hugs to you! May your memories be strong in your heart and carry you through… ♥

  90. Chris, our condolence.I know what the loss of a grandparent is, especially when you are close with them. I loss both of mine and my life as I knew it has never been the same! But, life goes on and they will forever remain in my heart. So will your grandmother! All the best to you and your family. Luv-Loretta

  91. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my grandfather in January and am now watching my grandmother try to navigate life without her husband of 63 years. It's heartbreaking. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  92. So very sorry for your loss! I have lost a grandparent before and it is SO hard! My grandmother lives less than a mile from us and I see her daily and she is VERY close with my daughter. It is hard for me to even think of her not being around. I hope you will find comfort in knowing she is in a better place and also in remembering all of the good memories you have of her.
    God Bless you & your family.

  93. So very sorry for your loss! I have lost a grandparent before and it is SO hard! My grandmother lives less than a mile from us and I see her daily and she is VERY close with my daughter. It is hard for me to even think of her not being around. I hope you will find comfort in knowing she is in a better place and also in remembering all of the good memories you have of her.
    God Bless you & your family.

  94. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  95. Chris, honey, I am so, so sorry for your loss. I only have one living grandparent, my dad's mom, and we are very close. I don't know what I'll do when we lose her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire extended family.

  96. So sorry to hear of you loss, losing a grandparent must be very difficult especially since you were so close. Hold tight to the memories that you shared and know that your blog friends are thinking and praying for you and your family.

  97. So sorry to hear of your loss. I know how hard it is to lose a grandparent. May God Bless you and wrap his arms around your and your family during this difficult time.

  98. Chris I am so, so sorry for your loss. I also grew up in the same neighborhood as my grandma and grandpa. It was heaven. I miss them both dearly and daily. I hope the wonderful memories you have will sustain you through this difficult time.

  99. My prayers go out to you. I lived with my grandparents growing up and loved them dearly, they had both passed away by the time I was 19. Your grandmother will be with you forever though. At the most unexpected times you will feel her presence and know she is still by your side being your greatest cheerleader.

  100. Cherish the wonderful memories with your grandparents. It looks like you had a great relationship!

  101. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

  102. I am so so sorry for the loss of your Grandma!!! I was VERY close to my grandmother too… She passed away in August. Take comfort in knowing they're in a better, happier place now! <3

  104. I'm so sorry Chris. I am SO close to my grandparents and the thought of them no longer being around just kills me. I really do consider my grandma to be one of my best friends. My thoughts are with your family and your adorable grandpa <3

  106. HUGS to you and your family, so sorry to hear about your loss. Grandparents hold a very special place in everyones heart. I'm very lucky to still have both sets. One has been married 61 years, and the other is going on 55 years!

  107. Even with the knowledge that you will see them again, it is a hard thing. I am sorry for your loss. Know that the separation is at least temporary. God Bless your family.

  108. So Sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my grandmother 7 months ago and miss her immensely. Praying for you and your family.

  109. I am terribly sorry for your loss. I am extremely close with my grandparents and believe they are an amazing gift!

  112. I'm so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. I can still remember vividly losing mine and she passed away in 1971. I loved her dearly and miss her still very much. May you be comforted by our Lord and cherish all your memories of her.

  113. Oh, my heart hurts for your loss. Please remember….

    When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. ~Kahlil Gibran

    That always helps me. God speed sweet grandma.

  115. SO sorry for your loss. Grandparents are so special to us. I am praying for your family.

  116. I am so sorry you lost your dear grandmother. I was very close to my grandparents, especially my grandmas. All of them have been gone for 11 years now. I miss my grandmas alot. I love to think of them watching over me and my children now. I love how they live on in me when I say something they said or do something they taught me. We are very blessed in this day and age to have known our grandparents. Most of those in previous generations were not so lucky as people died so much younger. Take care:)

  117. I'm so sorry for your loss, it's so hard. We lost my grandfather last year he and my grandmother were married for 76 years. My heart is with you!
    XO
    Kristin

  118. My deepest sympathy. Such a loss. She sounds like she was an amazingly dedicated and loving woman. I am really sorry.
    Courtney

  120. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending condolences to your entire family but especially your Dear Grandpa. That has to be hard on him. I will pray for your family.

  122. You are blessed to have the wonderful memories of your grandmother. I am so very sorry for your loss.

  123. Oh girl, I'm just reading this now :(. I'm going to be emailing you soon. I love you and am so incredibly sorry for your family's loss. In these situations, there are no words that don't just come out sounding trite or just selfishly trying to make up for my own incompetence to comfort. But if I had those magic words that would embrace you in peace, comfort, and love and take away the ache in your heart, I would lavish them upon you now! Hugs friend.

  125. Chris,

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
    It's hard to lose someone so close to you. But you are so lucky to have had her during your adult life and for your kids to have a great- grandmother, so very lucky.

    I hope all will go well for you this week and your family can have strength through the funeral, especially for your grandpa and mom.

  126. aaaww… *hugs* My granmoms my best friend as well.. and I've lived close to her.. all my life.. So I can only imagine what you must be going thru.. But remember she is always watching over you.. and will always be somewhere around you… hugs.. hope you have the strength to go thru this..

  128. I'm so sorry. Losing my grandparents was one of the hardest things of my life. My thoughts are with you.

  131. I am so sorry for your loss! My sweet grandma passed away exactly a month prior to yours. Every time I catch a glimpse of her picture or have a beloved memory come to mind, it takes my breath away. It is so unbelievably difficult. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

  133. I am sending my thoughts and prayers your way. Having lost my brother almost a year ago, I am familiar with heartbreak. May you be comforted.

  134. Oh, Sweet Girl, I am so sorry for the loss of your Grandmother. I know that your heart is broken. I will pray for your family as you go through this process and especially your Grandfather as he adjust to being without his obvious soul mate.

  137. Chris–
    I am sooo sorry to hear of this.
    Being with your family is the best place for you to be right now.
    We'll be here when you get back.
    Prayers for you and your family, especially your Grandfather.

    Melinda

  138. I'm so sorry about your beloved grandmother. Take care of your grandfather. Special prayers for all of you.
    carolyn – homework

  140. Keeping you in my prayers. I know how you feel my grandmother ment the world to me. It's been 10 years and I still cry when I think about her or even drive by Rose Hills Memorial Park. Blessings to your memories

  142. I am so sorry to read this. My grandmother was unlike any other & I can understand how hard this is. I would give anything just to watch her do something so simple as applying her makeup. The times we share may be limited, but they are the real treasures in life.

    Take care of yourself & your family. My heart aches for all of you.

    Let the memories keep you close.

  143. Oh Chris, I'm so so sorry!! I'm so sad to hear this. I can tell how special she was just by the way you talk about her. Give your Grandpa a big hug from all of us. Love you girl!!

  144. Chris, I'm so sorry for your family's loss. Sending hugs and prayers for peace and healing your way….Kindly, Jenn

  145. So sorry to hear about your dear Grandma. I lost mine too 5 yrs ago and I miss her everyday. She will always be a part of you, though, take comfort knowing she's watching over. Bless you and your family.

  147. My heart breaks for you. When you said you had an unexplainable love for your grandparents, I seriously thought you might be a long lost friend of mine! I was blessed to live with my grandparents from age 3 – 18. I lost the greatest man I've ever know almost 3 years ago and it's the hardest thing I've ever, ever been through. I'm sorry, this comment is not supposed to be about me. It's about you! And I want you to know that I'm praying for you, your grandfather and your entire family during this difficult time.

  149. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. '

    {{hugs}}

    Jen

  150. Chris, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandma. 🙁 Sending you prayers, and a great, big e-hug today.

    Layla

  151. Oh Chris, I am thinking of you during this time! I lost my Grandma who I was very close to almost 2 years ago and she was the closest person to ever pass away from me. It was her wish that I deliver her eulogy at the funeral and I never thought I could do it but I did and it's one thing that really helped me to deal with her loss. I am praying for you and your family and so happy to hear that you have so many fond memories growing up with her.

  152. I'm so very sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved grandmother. You and your family will be in my prayers. {{Hugs}}

  153. Oh, Chris!
    I'm so sorry! I lost my granny four years ago this week and it still hurts…I was a total granny's girl too. I'm thinking about you and your family, wish there was something I could do to help.

  155. Bless your heart… I'm so sorry for your loss. How lovely to have so many loving memories…. that will last you lifetimes…

    Sending comforting hugs….

    Spencer

  156. You and your family will be in my thoughts as you go through what I know to be a difficult time. I wish grace and peace for you all.

    ~Karen

  158. Just wanted to express my condolences to you. Losing a loved one is hard. Cherish your memories and one day you will be able to think of them with out so much sadness. Blessings!

  159. Chris, i am so sorry to hear about your grandmother, my heart is breaking for you.
    I am sending you hugs xoxo

  160. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I am, however, happy for you that you have such magnificent memories of your sweet Grandmother.

  161. Chris – I just wanted you to know that you're still in my thoughts… I've been waiting to see how you're hanging in there. I remember what a horrible thing this is to go through, and I hope the pain is starting to ease a little each day. Praying for you!
    Tami

  162. Chris, I'm so so sorry for your loss. It's evident how much you adore your grandparents & I know she will be missed. Hugs & prayers to you. xoxo

  163. I am truly sorry for your loss. My grandmother, also, was a huge part of my life. I think of her daily and remember life with her and all she taught me. Memories are fabulous – cherish everything she has taught you, spoke to you about, even time with her. In time, your heart will heal. God Bless you and your family.

  165. I'm so sorry for your loss. Grandparents are such special. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  167. Been so busy working that I missed this. I'm just heartbroken for you family- especially your Grandpa. Prayers to all of you and may your beloved Grandmother go in peace and love. (((hugs)))

  168. Chris,
    I am so sorry I missed this post. I am so sorry for your loss. Grandmothers are just absolute jewels on earth and there is no way to measure the value of their love.
    I am praying for you and your family. Especially your grandfather.
    xoxo
    Traci

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